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Heicrut – Dating with Commitment
Now in the USA
Jewish singles in New York, Miami and Los Angeles – your love story starts now!
מיאמי
לוס אנג'לס
ניו יורק
We're Ortal and Jony, the team behind "Heicrut Im Mechuyavut" (Dating with Commitment), a venture that brings together singles who are truly ready for something serious.
In Israel we run speed dating nights, singles retreats and personal matchmaking – and they've already led to couples, engagements and weddings.
Now we're bringing it to the Jewish communities of New York , Miami and Los Angeles, and building a bridge that didn't exist before: matches in your own city, across the US – and with singles in Israel, for anyone open to relocating.
So what do we offer?
Jewish singles in New York, Miami and Los Angeles – join our free Zoom mixer every Sunday
A fun, relaxed, pressure-free singles mixer on Zoom – free, every Sunday. Grab a drink, join from your couch and meet Jewish and Israeli singles from New York and LA who showed up for the same reason you did. Zero swiping.
Every Sunday
5:00 PM Pacific
8:00 PM Eastern
Next event
October 25
What happens on the night:
40 minutes with Jony – a host who has already brought many singles together and knows how to bring outeveryone's best side.
Icebreaker games that melt the awkwardness in seconds – no awkward questions, no first-date silences.
Real introductions – cameras on, and everyone's there for the same reason.
Couples have already come out of these evenings. The next date could be yours.
How to join:
01
Fill out a short questionnaire
(under 5 minutes).
02
Sign up by Thursday at
8:00 AM Eastern / 5:00 AM Pacific
, and we'll send you that
Sunday's Zoom link on WhatsApp.
03
Show up with a smile and
an open heart.
03. חיפוש
אנחנו מוצאים עבו רכם 4 או 6
התאמות מדויקות, לפי המסלול.
02. שיחת היכרות
חצי שעה בזום כדי להכיר את
הוויב, הערכים ומה שאתם
באמת מחפשים.
01. אפיון
שאלון עומק לבדיקת
התאמה למסלול.
איך זה עובד?
05. שיקוף
מה עובד לכם בדייטים,
מה פחות, ואיך מדייקים הלאה.
Want someone to do the searching for you?
Meet Personal Matchmaking
Old-school matchmaking with modern precision. No algorithms, no wasted evenings on dates that never should have happened.
We get to know you for real, do the filtering for you, and only introduce you to people who match what matters to you – and who have already said yes to meeting you.
How it works:
01. Profile
An in-depth questionnaire
to see if the
track is right for you.
02. Discovery call
30 minutes on Zoom
to understand
your vibe, your values and
what you're really looking for.
03. Search
We're there for every question,
doubt or post-date debrief.
04. Guidance
We're with you before and
after every date,
and we guide both sides.
05. Reflection
What works for you on dates
, what doesn't, and how to
sharpen the search going forward.
How it works:
05. שיקוף
מה עובד לכם בדייטים,
מה פחות, ואיך מדייקים הלאה.
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
02. Discovery call
30 minutes on Zoom to understand your vibe, your values and what you're really looking for.
03. Search
We find you 4 or 6 precise matches, depending on your plan.
01. Profile
An in-depth questionnaire to see if the track is right for you.
04. Guidance
We're with you before and after every date, and we guide both sides.
05. Reflection
What works for you on dates, what doesn't, and how to sharpen the search going forward.
03. חיפוש
אנחנו מוצאים עבורכם 4 או 6
התאמות מדויקות, לפי המסלול.
02. שיחת היכרות
חצי שעה בזום כדי להכיר את
הוויב, הערכים ומה שאתם
באמת מחפשים.
01. אפיון
שאלון עומק לבדיקת
התאמה למסלול.
What's included:
Reading your relationship map
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
A 30-minute in-depth Zoom session to spot the patterns that held you back and define clear criteria for your next partner.
Honest feedback
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
You'll get a reflection on how you came across on first dates, and what you can learn or adjust. For example: what you're projecting on a first date.
Personal, hands-on support
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
We're there for every question, doubt or post-date debrief.
4 or 6 guaranteed matches
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
Every match has been screened and spoken with by us, meets your criteria, has seen your photos and confirmed full interest – and you've approved them back.
A whole team behind you
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
Ortal, Jony and our singles manager. Together we refine the search from match to match, learn who you are and understand what matters to you in a partner.
A third party who holds the connection
04. ליווי
אנחנו איתכם לפני ואחרי כל דייט,
ומלווים את שני הצדדים.
Many new relationships fall apart over a misunderstanding or poor communication. We're there to bridge the gaps.
Our promise: what counts as a date?
Counts as a date:
A real, face-to-face meeting (or a Zoom date when your match lives overseas), after both of you have seen photos, heard the details and agreed, with someone who meets the criteria you defined.
Doesn't count:
Passing on someone after seeing a photo, a phone call that didn't feel right, or any connection that ends before you meet in person or, for overseas matches, before the Zoom date.
Finding a Jewish partner in America shouldn't be this hard.
And yet, it is.
In a city of millions, you see the same faces at every Shabbat dinner.
The apps are full of people who browse, text and vanish. Hours of swiping, zero connection.
The community is small, everyone knows everyone – and every date feels impersonal.
Your career, long work hours, a city that never stops – there's simply no time for guesswork.
You want someone who gets both of your worlds – the Judaism, the holidays, the family,
maybe even the Hebrew – and that makes the circle even smaller.
All you really wanted was to meet someone serious. Someone looking for exactly
what you're looking for.
You've come to the right place.
Exclusive to Personal Matchmaking members
Monthly Matchmaking Club
The club is open only to those who have first joined our Personal Matchmaking track. Once you're in, you can continue with ongoing personal introductions:
$ 97
/ month
What you get in the club:
At least 3 match suggestions every month.
You're in control – every suggestion comes straight to you, and you decide who to reach out to.
The "Dating with Commitment" format, for those who want it: 3 weeks, 2 dates a week.
Ortal and Jony guide you every step of the way.
Couples who found their match
"I can't believe I'm writing this, and I'm still in shock that it happened. But what did I have to lose? I gained love."
Dana & Yanir
"I came to Personal Matchmaking because I was done with people who weren't serious. Done with WhatsApp games. The fact that they talked to and guided Chen too made all the difference."
Tomer & Chen
"I came in with zero expectations after years of apps and endless dates. The scariest part is being disappointed again, but they really got to know me – what I love and what won't work – and guiding both of us mattered. At first it almost didn't happen because we couldn't schedule a date."
Snir & Tamar
"Honestly, we didn't really believe anything would come of it, and now we're about to get married. Faith and an open heart are everything!"
Nofar & Guy
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